Then the woman went to her husband and told him, “A man of God came to me. He looked like an angel of God, very awesome. I didn’t ask him where he came from, and he didn’t tell me his name. 7 But he said to me, ‘You will become pregnant and have a son. Now then, drink no wine or other fermented drink and do not eat anything unclean, because the boy will be a Nazirite of God from the womb until the day of his death.’” (NIV)
Matthew Henry makes the important pastoral point that it is good for a believing wife to share her spiritual experience with her husband. Indeed, it is important that both the husband and wife should share their walk with God, and the things He is showing them/saying to them. What a blessing, and a privilege, it is. Here are Henry’s words:
‘Thus should yoke-fellows communicate to each other their experiences of communion with God, that they may be helpful to each other in the way that is called holy.’
Over my years in Christian ministry, I have found that there are wives (and it usually has been wives) who feel spiritually lonely. For some reason, although they are in the most intimate of relationships, their Christian husbands will not pray with them, or talk to them about the things of God.
Why is that do you think? Is there a spiritual warfare element? (see Matt.18:19,20)
In 1 Peter 3:7, the apostle Peter writes:
”Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.”
I remember reading one commentator who suggested that this could mean ‘your prayers together’.