After this conversation, Jesus went on with his disciples into the Judean countryside and relaxed with them there. He was also baptizing. At the same time, John was baptizing over at Aenon near Salim, where water was abundant. This was before John was thrown into jail. John’s disciples got into an argument with the establishment Jews over the nature of baptism. They came to John and said, “Rabbi, you know the one who was with you on the other side of the Jordan? The one you authorized with your witness? Well, he’s now competing with us. He’s baptizing, too, and everyone’s going to him instead of us.”
27-29 John answered, “It’s not possible for a person to succeed—I’m talking about eternal success—without heaven’s help. You yourselves were there when I made it public that I was not the Messiah but simply the one sent ahead of him to get things ready. The one who gets the bride is, by definition, the bridegroom. And the bridegroom’s friend, his ‘best man’—that’s me—in place at his side where he can hear every word, is genuinely happy. How could he be jealous when he knows that the wedding is finished and the marriage is off to a good start?
29-30 “That’s why my cup is running over. This is the assigned moment for him to move into the center, while I slip off to the sidelines. (The Message)
How do we cope when God blesses someone else’s ministry more than He blesses ours? John the Baptist points the way:
”A person can receive only what is given them from heaven” (22, NIV).
John recognised that true success is God-given. In His Sovereign purposes, the Lord does give to some more than He gives to others. That is His business.
Richard Baxter of Kidderminster, who saw a huge turning to God in his town, once said, ‘O what am I…that God should thus abundantly encourage me, when the Reverend Instructors of my youth, did labour fifty years together in one place, and could scarcely say they had Converted one or two of their parishes!’
John, of course, had no problems with the ‘success’ of Jesus because he knew his place. He did not confuse his own role with that of the Messiah. When I got married, I trusted my best man implicitly. I knew he would do his job well, and I never expected for one moment that he would run off with the bride! If people were moving in the direction of Jesus, then that was what John wanted. It was what he lived for. His words, in verse 30, should be written on the heart of every preacher: ”He must become greater; I must become less” (NIV).