Now the Ephraimites asked Gideon, “Why have you treated us like this? Why didn’t you call us when you went to fight Midian?” And they challenged him vigorously.
2 But he answered them, “What have I accomplished compared to you? Aren’t the gleanings of Ephraim’s grapes better than the full grape harvest of Abiezer? 3 God gave Oreb and Zeeb, the Midianite leaders, into your hands. What was I able to do compared to you?” At this, their resentment against him subsided. (NIV)
”Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.” (Prov.17:14)
Andrew Bonar, a Scottish Presbyterian pastor. said, ‘Let us be as watchful after the victory as before the battle.’ In the aftermath of battle, Gideon immediately found some ‘unexploded mines’. But in this passage, he is a fine example of a ”gentle answer” turning away ”wrath” (Proverbs 15:1). He showed pastoral sensitivity and diplomacy in the face of harsh criticism.
”Better a patient person than a warrior,
one with self-control than one who takes a city.” (Prov.16:32)
Ephraim and Manasseh (Gideon’s tribe) were the two major Israelite tribes in Northern Canaan. So the Ephraimites felt side-lined when they were not called to help Gideon at the outset. We are, perhaps, in danger of becoming critical when we feel unfairly left out of things. But Gideon poured ‘oil on troubled waters’ with great skill and tact. He said that although they were called late to the battle (Judges 7:24), they were able to gather greater plunder than that of ”Abiezer”, Gideon’s clan.
‘Gideon shows us (1)That humility of deportment is the best way to remove envy. (2) It is likewise the surest method of ending strife.’ Matthew Henry
” Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” (Philippians 2:3,4)